Understanding behaviour sensitivity

Understanding behaviour sensitivity

Rude behaviour and crude comments at home or work place,can lower both our self confidence and our performance.It creates depression in people and low self esteem,says Ratna Khemani


Behaviour sensitivity is being sensitive,and dealing with each other courteously.Graciousness in our every day life,can save us a lot of headaches and hurts.Here are a few suggestions to bring in awareness in sensitivity in everyday life.

Rude behaviour and crude comments at home or in our work place,can lower both our self confidence and our performance.It creates depression in people and low self esteem
Be kind in your speech,in your behaviour,in your dealings
Remember how we liked the subjects that our favourite teacher used to teach Why Only because she taught so lovingly

Try not to be rude and run down someone in front of people or even otherwise.Explain their mistakes to him/her in private,gently but firmly

Bring in awareness of it,around you.Make an effort to practise kindness.Parents and elders can practise it at home,so children learn it automatically and effortlessly.
A home is our first school.This kind behaviour becomes a habit and continues
Teachers can practise it in class,with students.Running down a student,demeaning him in a class,can be a lifelong hurt and a very painful memory.Show it in simple practical ways and small instances and the lessons become eternal
Everyone soon realizes how good it feels and what a difference it makes in our daily doings and dealings

Giving instructions in a loud and rude tone,does not make it more effective,as we choose to think.On the contrary,the opposite happens
There is anger,resentment,rebellion and rage
Try not to be sarcastic when you talk
Also,try not to answer a question with a question Small behaviour and attitude changes act like grease in a machine.Every machine needs to be oiled and serviced for optimum functioning,the most important machine being ourselves,on which everything depends to bring a difference in our daily doings and dealings.